Ok so the heading is misleading - it is about bleeding just not about hearts!   This is a topic that many men don’t like to think about let alone talk about. I have always been very open about my periods and how troublesome, painful and unpredictable they were. Many of my male friends over the years ...

So it keeps on coming up – the elephant in the brothel room – the ‘no condom’ issue. Why oh why don’t people understand that a mouth that goes on one naked cock is going to go on a whole bunch so every time you put your unprotected penis in the mouth of someone who ...

  Last week I was once again approached by the TV news for a small interview, this time it was about an area that is close to my heart and has been something I have had quite a bit to do with over the past 20 years.   Sex and intimacy for the disabled. http://www.newshub.co.nz/tvshows/story/should-the-state-fund-sex-for-severely-disabled-2016022920   I have friends who ...

On Friday February 12th the NZPC held a Hui, a day of celebration and comparison between the state of the sex industry internationally and our fantastic world leading working model of decriminalization. The morning was filled with international and national speakers, several of whom I have done research projects with over the past years and the afternoon ...